The Deal :)

بِسمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحمٰنِ الرَّحيم 

Assalamualaikum.It's been a while i'm not posted any entry,so today i want to share from one of the entry i have read from other blogger.Actually,the tittle attracted me to read the post.Tajuk pon dah best pe gilenye aku tak bace,buang tabii la kalau aku tak baca..haha..I took it as a reminder and i hope so do you.Because,sometime  we always do mistake  and we neglect  it,then we do it again kan?Take the note as a reminder.So,life is full of crazy obstacles,but the one that probably bug you the most and always be getting in the way is the opposite gender.Nowadays,we need to interact with many guys dan memang susah giler nak jaga mata.I admit that.Kalau dah tak jaga mata,memang hati tu senang la nak dipermainkan  syaiton..There's some tips how to deal with guys.

1. No touching

-If someone wants to shake your hand,the best thing to do is just smile and say "My people dont shake hands" and then explain why.Why??Because  we believe a woman's touch is privelage and she does'nt share it with stranger means not muhrim.Tu kalau dengan non muslim kalau dengan muslim just bagi isyarat  salam dengan meletakkan tangan di dada.Ataupun,tunduk kepala sikit sebagai tanda hormat.

2.No flirting

-Means that you're saying or doing things on purpose that make the other person attracted to you.

-A wise dude once said "Dont start the mower unless you intend to cut the grass".

-If you dont want a guy advances,then dont do anything to earn them.

3.No Boyfriend

-Tahu sendirikan couple tu haram,bila dah h

aram dosa kalau buat.

4.No Boy- friends

-Probally 90% of relationships begin from friendships.

-Dont confide them,you dont let down your guard,you dont unnecessarily engage them in needless conversation,dont joke around and never flirt.

-Ramai kawan perempuan dlm dunia ni.Kalau rasa kawan perempuan tak faham dan lelaki lebih memahami share la masalah tu dekat abg ke,ayah pon boleh..pak sedara lagi bolehh..wakaka..asalkan yg mahram.

5.No talking on the phone with boys.

-In Islam its forbidden for non-related guys and girls to be alone together because there is the chance for physical zina,and vocal zina,and zina of the eyes.

6.Work Place

7.Be Disaffected

8.Dont be so caring

-The safest philosophy when dealing with guys is remenbering this "He's not what I want,so why should I do anything to make him interested in me?That'll just make for a painfully awkward situation  and it's not worth the sin anyhow."

9.Remember that you're always being watched.

-Do anything with taqwa.

-Remember every major sin begins with a small sin.

-Allah is always watching you.

Note:The above subject is not only for girls but also for boys too.

p/s:"Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad) kepada lelaki-lelaki mukmin; hendaklah mereka menahan pandangan-pandangan mata mereka" (Surah an-Nur, ayat 30). 

"Dan katakanlah kepada wanita-wanita beriman; hendaklah mereka menjaga pandangan mata mereka" (Surah an-Nur, ayat 31). 

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