بِسمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحمٰنِ الرَّحيم
Assalamualaikum.It's been a while i'm not posted any entry,so
today i want to share from one of the entry i have read from other
blogger.Actually,the tittle attracted me to read the post.Tajuk pon dah best pe
gilenye aku tak bace,buang tabii la kalau aku tak baca..haha..I took it as a
reminder and i hope so do you.Because,sometime we always do mistake
and we neglect it,then we do it again kan?Take the note as a
reminder.So,life is full of crazy obstacles,but the one that probably bug you
the most and always be getting in the way is the opposite gender.Nowadays,we
need to interact with many guys dan memang susah giler nak jaga mata.I admit
that.Kalau dah tak jaga mata,memang hati tu senang la nak dipermainkan
syaiton..There's some tips how to deal with guys.
1. No touching
-If someone wants to shake your hand,the best thing to do is
just smile and say "My people dont shake hands" and then explain
why.Why??Because we believe a woman's touch is privelage and she does'nt
share it with stranger means not muhrim.Tu kalau dengan non muslim kalau dengan
muslim just bagi isyarat salam dengan meletakkan tangan di
dada.Ataupun,tunduk kepala sikit sebagai tanda hormat.
2.No flirting
-Means that you're saying or doing things on purpose that make
the other person attracted to you.
-A wise dude once said "Dont start the mower unless you
intend to cut the grass".
-If you dont want a guy advances,then dont do anything to earn
them.
3.No Boyfriend
-Tahu sendirikan couple tu haram,bila dah h
aram dosa kalau buat.
aram dosa kalau buat.
4.No Boy- friends
-Probally 90% of relationships begin from friendships.
-Dont confide them,you dont let down your guard,you dont
unnecessarily engage them in needless conversation,dont joke around and never
flirt.
-Ramai kawan perempuan dlm dunia ni.Kalau rasa kawan perempuan
tak faham dan lelaki lebih memahami share la masalah tu dekat abg ke,ayah pon
boleh..pak sedara lagi bolehh..wakaka..asalkan yg mahram.
5.No talking on the phone with
boys.
-In Islam its forbidden for non-related guys and girls to be
alone together because there is the chance for physical zina,and vocal zina,and
zina of the eyes.
6.Work Place
7.Be Disaffected
8.Dont be so caring
-The safest philosophy when dealing with guys is remenbering
this "He's not what I want,so why should I do anything to make him
interested in me?That'll just make for a painfully awkward situation and
it's not worth the sin anyhow."
9.Remember that you're always
being watched.
-Do anything with taqwa.
-Remember every major sin begins with a small sin.
-Allah is always watching you.
p/s:"Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad) kepada
lelaki-lelaki mukmin; hendaklah mereka menahan pandangan-pandangan mata
mereka" (Surah an-Nur, ayat 30).
"Dan katakanlah kepada wanita-wanita
beriman; hendaklah mereka menjaga pandangan mata mereka" (Surah an-Nur,
ayat 31).
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